A Thing That Hasn’t Taken Long

It’s funny how things come along with people. Even relationships come a while in a short time and that’s something new for me, though I have weathered some strange and wonderful ones in the past. I’ve had one relationship recently blossom into something really great and not that it is strange, since I have had a few really good friendships spark as spontaneously as a forest fire, this one is still new to me.

The reason for it’s seemingly, newness is that it resides closer to me then the past relationships I have had. Of course this is based in the fact that I am older now and I have grown in different ways, which I myself can honestly and sincerely recognize without sounding incredibly ignorant.

The thing is that settling into knowing someone has changed for me and even more so it is something that deepens my compassion for them, and I don’t mean to speak so impersonal on this topic, but I’d rather that then get too personal, since I am treading the line. To put in short I’m dating a really great girl, and that has made my perspective and life change to some degree, not in a bad way obviously. It’s given myself a new scope on things and made me make new changes on a life that was getting a little bit too comfortable.

Of course maybe some don’t view such a relationship as one that should change them, but I do, since for me if I really care about someone I make concessions. I have to; there are no ways around that. And for that matter I really enjoy having someone to care for and to listen and care for me in turn. I know that is the draw for most others looking for relationships and the rest, but there is a lot more that goes into that as well.

Maybe, I’ll talk more about this topic when I have gleaned more from it, but it’s only been a month and I still feel like there is a bit more to go before I have another insight. Though I will say it’s been really amazing thus far.

Didn’t think I’d ever get to personal on here, but then I just did huh?